Hello. My Memorial Day Weekend was pretty low-key and close to home…like most of my holidays over the last few years if I’m not in Florida with my family. I did get to spend some wonderful quality time with Finn and my friends which is something that I’m very grateful for.
Overall, I was feeling a lot of low-level anxiety this weekend about house and work stuff. My HVAC unit hasn’t really worked great since I bought my house last August and I found out Friday that I need to replace the whole system. I also discovered today that I think Finn’s tub upstairs is leaking into the downstairs ceiling so a call to the plumber is in order tomorrow. Taking a deep breath and taking it in stride but worrisome nonetheless. I always try to be real here and some holiday weekends are just…okay.
That being said, I really did try to make the most of it and here’s what that looked like!
FRIDAY
Finn and I were up bright and early on Friday morning to drive about 100 miles to Julian, NC to tour Homeland Creamery for a partnership that I’m doing with the National Dairy Council. I woke up that morning to my AC not working on a 90 degree day so much of my drive there and back was on the phone with HVAC companies and my parents. Once I got home, the whole afternoon was spent dealing with that situation.
The good news is that Finn and I had such a lovely visit to Homeland Creamery that I’m excited to share with you in future blog and social media posts. I guess it’s also good news that I’m the proud new owner of a new, energy efficient HVAC unit that is being installed next week and hopefully will give me zero troubles for many years to come.
Finn was so wiped out from our morning activities that he fell asleep on the couch while I was working with the HVAC guy. I had to wake him up at 4p!
After a trip to Wal-Mart for some needed household supplies, Finn and I spent Friday night on the couch snuggling and relaxing with a movie.
SATURDAY
We had a slow start to our Saturday and then hit the pool around 11a for some swimming and playing before nap time. I joined a neighborhood swim club a few months ago because it’s less than half a mile from my house and I knew that given Finn’s activity level along with his love for water and being outside that it would be a great way to entertain him this summer. So far he loves it and I do too! It’s so relaxed, family friendly and not fancy…which I appreciate!
Finn took a solid nap after the pool and then we headed over to my friend Patti’s house for a late afternoon hangout. She and I did yoga teacher training together 10 years ago and are still friends to this day. Her children are grown but she and her husband were amazing hosts to me and Finn. We played in their backyard, visited a neighborhood playground and then came back to their house for snacks and more games inside. Finn was beside himself with happiness over all the activities and attention.
SUNDAY
After three days in a row of zero workouts (not even walking) I was determined to MOVE MY BODY on Sunday morning. I psyched Finn up with snacks, cars and books for a stroller run and got 4.5 much-needed miles in. He doesn’t love the stroller on the regular these days which makes it tough to get out for runs or the walks with the dogs that used to be our everyday routine.
One of the most challenging things about single motherhood has been workouts. They are always the first thing to go and it’s been a huge (and good) lesson in letting go for me. I used to be able to at least count on a daily walk but at this age/stage I sometimes go days without any kind of “real” workout. I try to be as active as I can with Finn at the playground, pool, park, etc. but my mind misses the workouts more than anything else.
Dorie organized a last-minute cookout on Sunday afternoon at her house. Finn had a blast!
I have to take a moment to show off the food because it was so delicious. We started with a cheese and charcuterie spread that Dorie’s daughter put together.
The main protein was grilled shrimp with garlic herb butter sauce.
I roasted a ton of veggies (onions, peppers, carrots, mushrooms, sweet potatoes, squash, zucchini, eggplant and broccoli) and we also had a mango avocado salad and a quinoa chickpea salad.
Here’s my plate of the mains + there was a second round of this and many trips to the charcuterie spread.
Such a lovely evening with my two best friends (Virginia was there too – in town from med school) and my boy.
MONDAY
Finn and I lounge and snuggled in bed until around 8a. After breakfast and some household chores, I had a babysitter come and watch Finn while I taught my normal Monday 10:30a class (our nanny took the day off). I am glad that I decided to teach and not get a sub because class was busy and really great from a community standpoint. So many small and promising glimpses that we will get back to pre-pandemic yoga one day soon.
I made lunch for Finn when I got home and then he informed me he was ready for his nap. He certainly was because he slept for almost two hours. After his nap we baked chocolate chip cookies together for his nanny, his dad and two of his little friends and then went for a nature walk.
We visited the trails that I used to frequent daily when I was pregnant and Finn was a baby. So crazy to have Finn on foot now! We walked two miles together and heard woodpeckers and crickets, saw a family of deer crossing the trail grazing for their dinner and looked for dinosaurs. It was perfect.
I spent a lot of time today reflecting on what service means to me. I was moved to tears by some of the posts I read on Instagram and I feel immense gratitude for those who were courageous enough to give their life for our country and our freedom. I am committed to serving my community with the gifts and means that I have to offer, and to helping light the path for others to do the same.
I am typing this post in the dark with a snuggly three-year-old next to me who was having a hard time settling down tonight (probably due to that long nap but oh well…he needed it!).
I hope you guys had a nice weekend. Thanks for being here. ❤️
QUESTIONS
How was your Memorial Day weekend? Did you travel? Did you stay close to home? Did you have travel plans?
What homeownership headache, improvements or projects have you dealt with recently?
How are you feeling right now?
So sorry to hear about the AC and plumbing issues! Same thing happened to us last week with our AC and it always seems to happen on the hottest days! I think your weekend sounds amazing and very special. Mine was very low key as well, and sometimes when scrolling through social media and seeing all the parties/people spending all weekend at the lake/etc on holiday weekends makes me feel like I’m missing out, but I always try to remind myself I’m not much of a partier and that low key is what I actually enjoy. Have a wonderful week, Jen! Thanks for always sharing your life with us 🙂
Hi! My husband and I are former CLT residents and rent our two former residences. We just replaced the HVAC at one. I am happy to share who we ended up going with, if you like. (It wasn’t the company we have a maintenance contract with…though we do like them!)
Ugh, I feel you on the AC problems. We live in a house that will be 10 years old later this year and are dealing with a variety of maintenance issues: repainting exterior and interior later this month (both desperately needed), leaking kitchen faucet that likely needs to be replaced, slow-flowing drains in three of our 3.5 bathrooms, and we need to replace our water softener as well.
We did nothing for Memorial Day. I actually worked about 7 hours yesterday. *sigh*
Sharing my best tip for stroller runs…blast the Cars soundtrack and pretend you’re in a race! That bought me an extra few months 🙂 Now I run alongside my kids while they ride their scooters and my 6-year old wants to do a 5K with me. So hang in there, exercising with little kids is really tough but it gets easier and more fun as they get older!
Hi! You should totally get Finn a scooter! I have a 3 year old as well and it’s a lifesaver for taking walks since she doesn’t like the stroller much either 🙂 just thought I’d share in case he doesn’t have one yet!
Thank you for sharing! Sounds like a great weekend! I too struggle with getting workouts done with my job, my 2 kiddos and all the things we juggle. I agree with you that it has taught me to let it go and this is not the season of life for me to be doing long intense workouts and that’s okay. This is the time for cherishing our time with our kiddos and the workouts will come. Thank you for your honesty and sharing with us.
I second one of the commenters above – our 3 year old goes on her scooter or balance bike next to me while I get a run in (hubby is a pilot so I’m single mom 4/5 days a week). It’s not perfect but it beats the stroller. I hope that might work for you and Finn. Loving your blog! ?
I saw some of the comments above and Finn has a scooter, doesnt he? Some kids just love to run!
My HVAC is doing weird things too and I think its only a matter of time for me now…
Home ownership isnt for me (Im a single mom) but I had to do it as a single mom. I would much rather just rent but the prices to rent and the lack of space just dont make sense when you have a child, do they? I know renting is basically losing money and not for most people but I just dont love having to take care of household issues. I would rather have someone else do it for me 😉
Jodie, I agree so much about the pull between “losing money” (aka equity) by renting, and not having to worry about the maintenance. When my husband and I bought a house last year (in my early 40s), I genuinely felt a pang of disappointment that any repairs are now on our shoulders. The convenience of being able to pick up the phone and having someone else manage the problem is greatly missed!
I got him a scooter for his birthday. He’s still getting used to it and not a big fan so far (mostly doesn’t want to put the helmet on).
I hear you on owning. It’s A LOT to manage and navigate when you’re managing it all on your own and making decisions on your own. So often I just want to bury my head in the sand and ignore the problems…but you can’t.
I recently started using a wagon with my 2.5 year old and he’s much happier to ride in the wagon vs stroller when we walk the dog.
That is awesome! We have a wagon but I just don’t think there’s any way I could manage pulling it and two dogs on a leash!