Remember that song? Can you believe that it was released in 1993? I used to be a Counting Crows fan.
There hasn’t been a ton going on around here. My mom arrived last Thursday and leaves this Thursday. I think this has been our most low-key visit to date due to Finn being sick the first half of her stay and her catching Finn’s cold for the second half.
Finn came down with a cold early last week and it’s been a doozy. Instead of getting better as the week progressed, it got worse. He was running a fever and had a very upset tummy by the end of the week so my mom and I took him into the pediatrician on Friday afternoon. Turns out it was a good call because he had his first ear infection so he’s on antibiotics for the first time.
I called the nurse again yesterday to check in on Finn’s tummy and she told me I was the fourth mom she’d talked to that day about cold + GI stuff. She said there’s some kind of combo virus going around. Fun times.
Like I said in my post last Friday, at least he’s been happy through it all. You guys…this picture. I feel like I’m going to blink and he’ll be behind the wheel of a real car.
I’ve been running a lot. Always my go-to when dealing with things that are hard. <3
I know Zoey misses Sullie a lot but the distraction of my mom being here and the extra love that comes with it has been helpful. She stays close.
Also helpful, having a baby brother who adores you. Finn loves Zoey and is constantly patting her. His latest trick is starting to throw her ball, which is adorable.
I had a very quiet birthday weekend (it was last Sunday), which was exactly what I wanted. Our big outing of the day on Saturday was to the Matthews Farmers Market and then to Brakeman’s for coffee. Other than that, we stayed close to home and went to the park that evening.
On my actual birthday, Dorie dropped by first thing that morning with a gift. I was still in my PJs and making breakfast. She had this painting of Sullie done by a local artist. How beautiful is this? We were all in tears.
I subbed a yoga class that morning and took a yoga class that afternoon. Other than that, I kept it very simple and quiet. It was just what I wanted this year. I expanded more on this here. <3
My mom and I talked about going out but since it was Sunday, most of the restaurants that I really wanted to try or go to were closed. I suggested cooking at home and perhaps going out another night. I did gorgonzola gnocchi (from Trader Joe’s) with spinach stirred in. I served it with sautéed mushrooms from the farmers market and crispy prosciutto. On the side I seared a few scallops.
This was the highlight of my whole entire birthday…
My dad thought my dinner came from a restaurant!!!!!!!!! For the record, it was restaurant-quality delicious. 😉
Sweet, sweet Cristina from The Batchmaker baked me a cake in honor of Sullie. I had a hard time celebrating this birthday because of Sullie and all that has transpired over the last year but something about this cake felt right.
It was a chocolate cake with peanut butter filling. It was iced with chocolate frosting and garnished with more peanut butter stuff. I’m telling the truth when I say that I think this was the best cake that I’ve EVER had before. It blows any bakery cake out of the water. It just tastes homemade and like the cakes of my childhood.
Okay, that’s a good start on a catch up of what’s been going on round here.
I’d love for this conversation to flow both ways and for y’all to share what’ been going on in your lives too!
What’s your favorite cake flavor combo?
Are you a quiet/small celebration birthday person or a “birthday month” kind of person? (no judgement either way!)
Sorry to hear that Finn has been sick! Our son had so many ear infections last year that he ended up getting tubes when he was round 9 months. Those ear infections are super painful for him and the antibiotics he is on are probably messing with his GI system, too. 🙁
I am definitely a low key birthday kind of person. I did a big 30th birthday party that was French-themed but that is the only big birthday party I’ve had in many, many years. We usually end up getting Indian take-out and staying in. My husband usually gets French macarons from my favorite bakery for dessert and that is the extent of the celebration! Before having our son, I would probably go out for a nicer dinner but we haven’t done that the last couple of years. Your birthday dinner looks delicious and restaurant quality. And that cake looks amazing!! Chocolate and PB is definitely my favorite flavor combination!!!! I never eat cake anymore, though, as I am celiac and GF cakes just kind of suck! There is a great GF bakery in Minneapolis but I tend to get their cinnamon rolls if I am going to treat myself to something.
I love a good ice cream cake 🙂 I’m a frosting girl all the way though, so that filling/frosting looks divine to me!
I prefer a small celebration with close friends and then a dinner with my significant other or best friend,etc.
New in my life? Looking forward to taking my 9 month black lab mix puppy Maple to Lake Champlain in 2 weeks!
Happy Birthday! Sounds like a wonderful time and what a beautiful painting of Sullie!
antibiotics were awful on my daughters stomach when she had her first ear infection a few months back, of course we were traveling so that was fun. Be ready for lots of diaper cream!!
Happy Belated Birthday! I just realized that I lost my amazing horse Brady when I was 36 years old. On July 11th it will have 15 years and we were together for 16 years. He was my best everything and with me during the same time period you and Sullie were together. While the pain is insurmountable at times, the beautiful memories and love you shared will fill your heart as time goes by. xo
I completely understand struggling with celebrating your birthday this year. I lost one of my fur babies three days before my birthday and I didn’t want to celebrate at all. A couple months later I finally agreed to do cake and presents. Sending love and the strength you need to get through this. Although from personal experience, it’s not really something you get through, more like something you learn to live with.
Thanks so much for sharing, glad that you all are doing better. I don’t know if it is something about this month but I have been in a funk for what it seems like all month. I hate complaining and putting negative vibes out into the universe but I have been super stressed out about my upcoming move. It will be the first time completely living on my own. I know that I can do it but without a job set in stone for me it is very stressful. But I know that all will be well and whatever is supposed to happen will happen.
-Kate
https://daysofkate.com/
You’ve had a couple of rough birthdays in a row, and I’m sure low key felt just right. My pup passed the week before my birthday, also, and it just felt empty. You’ll be due for some good ones in the next few years – just think of the first year Finn will be able to wish you a happy birthday all on his own! <3
We were actually in Charlotte for the day Saturday which gave me the opportunity to visit Sunflour in person for the first time – yum! My husband had brought home the cinnamon roll last month for us to share, so this time I went for the morning glory muffin, although I really wanted to take home the whole case 🙂 It was nice to branch out from Amelie's as far as Charlotte treats go, so thanks for mentioning it! I
I’m a small kinda birthday person myself. My birthday is June 18 so it’s tylically a Father’s Day/birthday weekend celebration with my family. And then a very small celebration with my husband, 2 kiddos and 2 pups on my actual birthday. I’ve always been a little averse to celebrating my birthday. Not sure why since nothing traumatic has happened or “bad”. I just have never been a big birthday type person ??♀️ For myself. I love celebrating other people’s birthday though!!! ?
My birthday is Jan 4, so by default it’s always been low key. Everyone is usually pretty tired after all the holiday festivities and for the past few years we’ve come back home with colds. We always go back to Stl (both mine and my husband’s hometown) so we don’t usually have time to go on a trip. We have done weekend getaways to the mountains for skiing or snowshoeing. So we still get some fun in and then usually go out for a nice dinner.
But I love to celebrate other people’s birthdays and make it special!